Behavior guide targets ‘the ugly American’ - CNN

Alarmed by the relentless rise of anti-Americanism around the world, a business-backed group is trying to change the behavior that spawned an enduring stereotype of Americans abroad — loud, arrogant, ill-dressed, ill-mannered and lacking respect for other cultures.

For many years, much of the rest of the world distinguished between the United States and the American people. Americans tended to get better ratings than their country and its policies. But recent surveys show that favorable perceptions of Americans have been shrinking while views on the world’s only superpower grow increasingly hostile.

Enter Business for Diplomatic Action Inc. (BDA), a non-profit organization founded by advertising executive Keith Reinhard after a worldwide survey of attitudes towards Americans convinced him that “our collective personality is one of the root causes of anti-Americanism.”

“We are seen as loud, arrogant and completely self-absorbed,” said Reinhard, chairman emeritus of the advertising agency DDB Worldwide. “People see in us the ultimate arrogance — assuming that everybody wants to be like us.”

Tips for travelers
This month, San Francisco-based BDA — whose board includes executives from Exxon and McDonald’s — began distributing a “World Citizen’s Guide” to corporate travelers. Its 16 points are a mirror image of the behavioral patterns that earned Americans a boorish reputation in the first place. Here’s a sampler from the guide.

Think as big as you like but talk and act smaller. In many countries, any form of boasting is considered rude. Talking about wealth, power or status — corporate or personal — can create resentment.

Speak lower and slower. In conversation, match your voice level and tonality to the environment and other people. A loud voice is often perceived as bragging. A fast talker can be seen as aggressive and threatening

Dress up. You can always dress down. In some countries, casual dress is a sign of disrespect. Check out what is expected and when in doubt, err on the side of the more formal and less casual attire. You can remove a jacket and tie if you are overdressed. But you can’t make up for being too casual.

Listen at least as much as you talk. By all means, talk about America and your life in the country. But also ask people you’re visiting about themselves and their way of life. Listen, and show your interest in how they compare their experiences to yours.

Not good at listening
“We Americans just don’t listen,” said BDA’s executive director Cari Eggspuehler. “Listening is not an American trait.” Eggspuehler traveled the world when she worked for the U.S. Department of State before joining BDA.

More than 400 companies have expressed interest in the World Citizens Guide. Ten thousand copies have already been distributed and 30,000 more are now being printed under sponsorship from the National Business Travelers Association which works with BDA to push the initiative.

A proposal to the State Department to issue the guide along with every new or renewed U.S. passport is still under review, according to Eggspuehler….

An estimated 60 million Americans travel abroad each year and BDA’s Reinhard sees all of them as potential ambassadors who might win the hearts and minds of their host countries, no matter how much people there might hate U.S. policies….

This is not a new phenomenon. The term “Ugly American” became part of the popular language with a best-selling 1958 novel of that title. It criticized the blundering behavior of Americans in Southeast Asia and prompted then-President Dwight Eisenhower to reform U.S. aid programs in the region….